RELATIONSHIP

At some point in time in our lives, we get toa point where we become aware....especially of the opposite s3x.
We start to get attracted and are conscious of ourselves, making sure we look attractive.
The teenage age where all these changes begin,its also the beginning of many relationship journey, many dating journey.
What makes relationships important is the fact that it is part of life, it is the platform for continuity, the tool for creating life.
I have heard. so many people who got hurt say "I'm done" "I will never date again" "this is the last" but sooner than expected, they are back with that same person that hurt them (we'll. talk about this sometime) or with someone else.
The truth is, Relationship is innate. Whether we like it or not (we like it, lol) we just desire to be in a relationship. We might fight it, we might deny it but deep down we know we want it.

There are universal law and forces we cannot contend with, A MAN and A WOMAN coming together, raising a family and members of this family grow up do thesame and the cycle continues. It cannot change no matter what, that is to say that relationships are very important.
However, relationships have become a major issue in our world. Diverse negative scenarios that will blow your mind, people contending with unbelievable issues in a world that MUST EXIST (Relationship)
I want to make this clear as much as possible, as crystal clear as possible.
We cannot run away from relationship. I prefer to use the word relationship than dating. Dating, which should have thesame value and meaning as relationship in terms of A man and a woman in love, seeing each other for the purpose of marriage and raising family, has been played down to a man and a woman having fun.
If you are looking to just have fun, good for you...but I am here for people who genuinely want a purposeful relationship or purposeful dating.
So I will start from scratch. This topic. Is so huge, I can't exhaust it.
If you want a successful relationship, there are a lot of things to know and understand.

1. You cannot do without relationship. Run through list of people you know, or have heard of and check. They are in one form of relationship or dating..serious or not.
If someone hurt you and you leave the relationship, that's not the end sooner or later, you will find yourself in another.

2. You need to know why you want to be in a relationship. A lot of people just find themselves in a relationship and they wonder what they are doing. In that kind of relationship. Your reason for getting into a relationship needs to be known to you cause that determines if you will categorise that relationship as successful or not.

You just want to have fun in a relationship and you are complaining he's cheating...huuum excuse me, that's not your call, for as long it's just fun, just enjoy the fun, well and by fun I mean s3x and adventure.

3. Relationship cost money!
Yes!, if you have no money, I don't mean sudden cash like gift, well except it such a huge amount you can start a business. I mean at least a source of income.
In as much a I don't base relationship on money, it will be a lot challenging entering into a relationship with the idea that you are not going to spend money. I travel 6 hours almost every single month sometimes twice a month to see my queen, that's not free, she does the same, that's not free. So if you don't have money to handle certain basic, necessary needs that will crop up, then I will advice you chill.

4. Relationship is HARDWORK....(to be continued tomorrow)